Ethical Non-Monogamy & Polyamory Therapy in Portland, OR

Affirming Support for Ethically Non-Monogamous Individuals & Relationships

  • Are you non-monogamous & looking for therapy? Maybe you're here because...

    You and your partner are opening up your relationship. This is a new journey for both of you, and you want to do this with care. You feel excited by the possibility for more connections but you worry about navigating boundaries, agreements, time and jealousy. You aren’t aligning completely with how you want this to look and you’re worried this will lead to hurt and conflict. There’s no script or roadmap for ethical non-monogamy, so you aren’t sure where to start and how to move forward.

    We will help you clarify your wants, needs & boundaries, tune up your communication so you have a solid foundation, and develop tools for navigating the feelings that may come up on this journey.

    You’re struggling with jealousy and insecurity in your relationships.

    You really believe in non-monogamy and know it can add so much to your life and relationships. At the same time, you’re getting stuck in anxiety, insecurity, and jealousy. You want to work through this so you can enjoy your relationships, build more confidence, and experience compersion.

    We will support you in processing your feelings, identifying where your anxiety is rooted, build strategies to address these deeper issues, and find more confidence & ease in your relationships.

Ethical non-monogamy and polyamory therapy in Oregon

You deserve support from a therapist who is affirming and experience with non-monogamy.


Our clinicians are experienced supporting those who are ethically non-monogamous. We support individuals & those in relationships. Whether non-monogamy is the focus of your therapy goals or you just want a therapist who gets this one part of your life, we’re here for you.

We have experience working with:

  • polyamory & polycules

  • swinging

  • attachment issues in non-monogamy

  • opening up an existing relationship

  • challenges with metamours

  • jealousy & insecurity

  • communication issues

  • calendar-ing struggles

    & more!

Other relationship concerns we can help you with:

  • Sexual issues

    Relationship dissatisfaction

    Questioning your relationship

  • Neurodivergence in relationships

    Parenting concerns

    Conflict around family relationships

Our Providers Who Specialize in Ethical Non-Monogamy

  • Jess Fox offers therapy for polyamory in Portland, OR.

    Jess Fox, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate

  • Aspen Romriell, Marriage & Family Therapy Intern

  • Norma Nance is a polyamory therapist in Portland, OR.

    Norma Nance, Clinical Social Work Associate

  • Sarah Sumner is a polyamory therapist in Portland, OR.

    Sarah Sumner, Clinical Social Work Associate

  • Ilana Young is a polyamory therapist in Portland, OR.

    Ilana Young, Clinical Social Work Associate

  • Yael Kievksy offers polyamory therapy in Portland, OR.

    Yael Kievsky, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist

  • Taylor Kravitz offers therapy for separation and divorce in Portland, OR.

    Taylor Kravitz, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist

We offer support with ethical non-monogamy & polyamory in Portland, OR (and online in all of Oregon & Washington).