Hi, I’m Lindsay!

Lindsay Moldovan, couples therapist and eating disorder therapist in Portland, OR.

Lindsay Moldovan, MA, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate

(She/Her)

Supervised by April Waggoner, PhD, LMFT, LPC & Dr. Karlaina Brooke PsyD, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist

Identities: cis, mixed-race, queer, fat, neurodivergent, & chronically ill

Availability: Mondays 10am-1pm & 6pm-8pm, Wednesdays & Thursdays 11am-1pm, Fridays 12pm-7pm, and Saturdays 11am-4pm

Locations: Online in Oregon & Washington

Fee: $175 per 50 minute session

*Current Availability: Waitlist for Individuals & Couples and Waitlist for Adult Autism Assessments*

Why I do this work:

I do this work because I know what it’s like to feel you can only show up as part of yourself, to make yourself small, to feel invisible or unseen in your experiences. We’re often taught to do so in the pursuit of safety and acceptance, but ultimately this type of masking often leads to burnout, anxiety, depression, isolation, lack of fulfillment, and relationship issues. My goal as a therapist is to support you in learning that all parts of you are worthy of taking up space. This often means unlearning the rules you were taught growing up and finding self-compassion over self-criticism.

My lived experience informs my desire to do this work. I exist within so many intersections of identity - I’ve never been someone who could fit neatly into just one box. I have experienced firsthand the pressure to present as more “normal,” more palatable to others. I have also experienced the confusion, loneliness, and complexity of moving through this world with invisible identities. Over the course of my journey as a human and as a clinician, I have learned to identify and challenge the “shoulds” instilled in me by intergenerational trauma and social norms in order to take up space. To be seen in your authentic self is incredibly hard and vulnerable work, but it is also joyful and something everyone deserves.

I want to help you truly understand your story and how you got to where you are. Once we can understand that, we can explore how to get you from where you are to where you want to be. In a world that has so much to say about what we’re meant to be doing, my goal is to empower you to choose your own path, and I’ll be here to act as a guide and support along the way.

My favorite thing as a clinician is helping people to reconnect to joy. Whether that’s the joy of food, the joy of time with your partner or family, or the simple joy of being able to feel safe and relax - I want to help you find that.

How I do this work:

I’m passionate about supporting clients around complex trauma (CPTSD), neurodivergence, eating disorders/disordered eating related concerns, chronic illness, living in a bigger body, and burnout related to invisible identities. I also love working with couples who want to strengthen their connection & ability to support each other. I especially enjoy supporting interracial and neurodivergent couples

I aim to make therapy feel warm, safe, and inviting. Therapy sessions with me can involve delving deep into your emotions and experiences, but only once you feel ready to do so. And when you need a break, feel free to tell me about your pets, your plants, or hit me with your best dad joke. We’ll go at your pace and prioritize your needs and capacity. If we meet barriers or resistance, I’ll be curious and help you to explore them so that we can move towards your goals.

To me, therapy is a collaborative process - you are the expert on your experience; I bring a fresh perspective, tools and different ways of understanding your story. I view it like a big ball of yarn: you’ve been pulling at different ends for a while, you’re tired, you’re overwhelmed - I’m here to help you take a step back, re-evaluate, and then have a second set of hands to help you untangle all those knots (and yes I use lots of imagery in therapy).

My work is heavily informed by Internal Family Systems (IFS) (exploring protective “parts” of yourself that can sometimes get in the way of your overall goals), Narrative Therapy (exploring the stories you have learned about yourself) and Structural Family Therapy (exploring patterns of behavior and interpersonal dynamics). My work is trauma-informed, intersectional, and Health at Every Size aligned.

I also offer adult Autism assessments!

I Enjoy Working With:

  • Couples Therapy

    Neurodivergent couples

    Interracial/intercultural relationships

    Navigating impacts of differing identities/lived experience

    Communication issues

  • Neurodiversity

    ADHD

    Autism

    Masking

    Executive functioning challenges

    Adult Autism assessments

  • Food & Body Concerns

    Disordered eating/Eating disorders

    Finding body acceptance/neutrality

    Supporting loved ones struggling with disordered eating/eating disorders

  • Burnout

    Neurodivergent burnout

    Unmasking

    Burnout recovery

Qualifications:

MA in Marriage, Couple, and Family Therapy (Lewis & Clark College)

BA in Psychology and Social Behavior (UC Irvine)

Credentials:

Marriage and Family Therapy Associate in Oregon and Washington

Neurodivergent Affirming Adult Autism Assessment Training (Empowered Fulfillment Therapy/Taylor Kravitz LMFT, ASDCS)

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