Hi, I’m Jess!

Jess Fox is a sex therapist in Portland, OR. She specializes in couples therapy, therapy for BIPOC, and kink/BDSM.

Jessica Fox, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate

(She/They)

Supervised by Wonyoung Cho, PhD, LMFT & Karlaina Brooke, PsyD, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist

Identities: bi-racial (Mexican American), second generation, Latinx, queer, gender fluid, kinky

Location: Online in Oregon

Availability: Monday 11am-2pm, Tuesday 11am-8pm, Thursdays 10am-7pm, & Friday 11am-7:30pm

Fee: $175 per 50 minute session

*Current Availability: Waitlist for Individuals & Couples*

I’m excited you’re here! I love supporting both individuals & couples/partners towards their individual, relational, or sexual goals. I’m experienced working with clients who are queer, gender expansive, kinky, non-monogamous, fat/bigger bodied, and BIPOC. I look forward to meeting you, sitting with discomfort, and celebrating your progress on your healing journey.

Why I do this work:

I felt inspired to do this work because of my lived experience. I identify as a bi-racial (Mexican American), second generation, Latinx, queer, gender fluid, kinky person who currently exists in a mid-size body. While these identities are a just fraction of who I am, it’s important to me to share them because they have shaped how I navigate the world. As a person with intersectional identities, I have experienced having to hide parts of myself in order to survive. I have also been in spaces with people who embraced me and made me feel cared for, loved, and able to be true to my authentic self.

Because of these experiences, I approach therapy as a way to meet people where they are in their lives and work together collaboratively, so people can live as their most authentic selves. Life can bring us uncertainty and challenges; as a therapist, I believe people deserve to express themselves and be heard in an open, curious, and non-judgmental space.

How I do this work:

I approach therapy holistically & aim to help you connect with your body and emotions so that you can feel more at ease. I will highlight your strengths and inner resources that can help you thrive, while also gently challenging you when you’re stuck in unhelpful patterns. I will work to center your needs, capacity, and feedback so that therapy feels supportive to you. My goal in therapy is to help you access a space of authenticity and connection to yourself, your partner(s), and your communities.

I work from an ecosystemic and relational lens; this means that I acknowledge the ways we are in connection with each other and the spaces we occupy, knowing our daily life can be impacted by larger systems such as capitalism and white supremacy. I use a variety of therapeutic modalities stemming from Systems therapy and Intersectional/Feminist perspectives, such as Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Narrative Theory, and Polyvagal.

My Specialities

  • Sex Therapy

    Mismatched desire in relationships

    Low sexual desire

    Sexual anxiety

    Sexual shame

    Kink & BDSM

    Sexual Identity

    Sex workers

    Sexual trauma

  • Relationship Therapy

    Communication issues

    Ethical non-monogamy

    LGBTQIA relationships

    Attachment wounds

    Mixed neurotype relationships

  • Queer & Gender Expansive

    Identity exploration

    Internalized shame

    Traumatic invalidation

    Gender transition

  • People of Color

    Racial identity

    Intergenerational trauma

    Imposter syndrome

    Intersectional identities

Qualifications:


BA Psychology (Humboldt State University)

MA Marriage, Couples and Family Therapy (Lewis and Clark College)

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate (R7930)

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