What does it mean to "queer" therapy?

What does it mean to queer a system, a space, a relationship, or even a therapy session?

“Queering: To make strange, to frustrate, to counteract, to delegitimize, to camp up (heteronormative) knowledge and institutions." -Nikki Sullivan

At its heart, queering invites us to become curious about assumptions we take for granted. It asks us to pause and ask: Why do we do things this way? Who benefits? What other possibilities might exist?

At Empowered Fulfillment, I've noticed a culture where queering feels alive. "Why not?" is often asked more frequently than, "Why?"

This spirit extends to our work with clients. For example, a feeling can be drawn instead of described. A game can lead to insight. A body sensation can be just as important as a thought. A metaphor can reveal something that analysis cannot.

Queering therapy challenges the idea that there is one right way to heal, communicate, or make meaning.

Many of these practices have long existed within queer communities, where creativity and the reimagining of norms is necessary for survival. Queering therapy invites us to challenge norms and assumptions that shape how we see ourselves, our relationships, and our work.

We strive to not only make therapy a safe and supportive space for queer identities, but to also challenge assumptions about what therapy and relationships should look like, how insight happens, and how growth and healing are defined.

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